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      <image:caption>I work with anxious young adults and high-functioning professionals in New York who often feel like they’re living in overdrive-and I’ve been there too. That lived experience, combined with my training, helps me meet you where you are–not with judgment, but with curiosity and compassion. I also specialize in helping people heal from relationship trauma—the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel safe, seen, or connected even when life looks “together” from the outside. I’ll be honest- I have my own overachiever parts.  The upside is that they keep me fully invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and committed to help you create lasting relief and meaningful change.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I grew up in New York in an environment where achievement was never quite enough. I know firsthand what it feels like to keep reaching, to accomplish something and find the bar has already moved. That followed me through Dartmouth College and Columbia University. As a parent, I've encountered a completely different but equally relentless kind of pressure. The constant question of whether you're doing enough or doing it right.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I work with anxious young adults and high-functioning professionals in New York who often feel like they’re living in overdrive-and I’ve been there too. That lived experience, combined with my training, helps me meet you where you are–not with judgment, but with curiosity and compassion. I also specialize in helping people heal from relationship trauma—the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel safe, seen, or connected even when life looks “together” from the outside. I’ll be honest- I have my own overachiever parts.  The upside is that they keep me fully invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and committed to help you create lasting relief and meaningful change.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Most people who come to me have already tried the obvious things. The meditation app. The journal that lasted two weeks. The breathing technique. They're not lacking tools. They're lacking a real understanding of what's actually driving things underneath. Once you can see the patterns clearly, they lose some of their grip. Anxiety therapy helps you: Slow down enough to see what's actually running in the background: the habits and internal scripts that made sense once and now just keep looping Notice the pattern while you're in it, not in hindsight Let good things actually land instead of preparing for what comes next Trust yourself without running every decision through your head over and over Stop optimizing your life and start actually living it If any of this sounds familiar, reach out.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In sessions, we slow things down and look at what's happening inside. We get to know the parts of you that push, perform, and keep tabs on everyone else. IFS therapy helps you: Notice as things loosen. The inner critic eases, and you start relating to yourself with more curiosity and a lot less judgment Recognize what's driving the overthinking, people-pleasing, and self-criticism Understand what those patterns have been protecting you from Respond to yourself with more compassion and less reactivity Build self-trust that doesn't depend on getting everything right The approach is direct and closely attuned, focused on change you can actually feel, not just understand.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>TRAUMA THERAPY - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety &amp; Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>TRAUMA THERAPY - WHAT TRAUMA THERAPY ACTUALLY DOES</image:title>
      <image:caption>The first thing many people notice is that what they've been experiencing has a name. The reactivity, the people-pleasing, the numbing. These aren't personality flaws. They're responses. And they make complete sense given what your nervous system learned to do. Trauma therapy helps you: Build stability first, moving at a pace that doesn't overwhelm your system Understand what your body has been holding and why it's been so hard to think your way out of it Process what's been stored without having to relive it Be in the present rather than living inside old patterns Show up in your relationships without bracing for what comes next Most people find they're capable of more change than they thought.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>SOMATIC THERAPY - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety &amp; Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>SOMATIC THERAPY - WHAT SOMATIC THERAPY ACTUALLY DOES</image:title>
      <image:caption>Talking about something and feeling it in your body are two very different things. Lasting change happens through new experiences, not just new insights. Somatic therapy helps you: Tune into what your body is actually telling you, not just your thoughts about it Build the capacity to actually take in good experiences, not just survive the hard ones Feel more present and less at the mercy of your own reactions Complete what got left unfinished in your nervous system Access a steadiness in yourself that thinking alone can't reach Your body has been trying to tell you something for a long time. This is how you finally listen.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.hilarykopple.com/cbt-therapy-nyc</loc>
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    <lastmod>2026-05-30</lastmod>
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      <image:title>COGNITIVE-BEHAVIORAL THERAPY NYC - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety &amp; Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>COGNITIVE-BEHAVIORAL THERAPY NYC - WHAT CBT THERAPY ACTUALLY DOES</image:title>
      <image:caption>CBT slows things down enough to untangle what's been happening so fast you couldn't see it. CBT is one of the most researched therapies in psychology. CBT helps you: See the cycle instead of just being in it Notice when your body is trying to tell you something before your brain catches up Unhook from a thought instead of being dragged by it Do the thing anxiety is telling you not to Build actual tools, not just insight CBT isn't about thinking happy thoughts. It's about finally understanding what's been running the show and having actual tools to change it.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.hilarykopple.com/ifs-therapy-nyc-1</loc>
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      <image:title>INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS THERAPY - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS THERAPY - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:loc>https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/94a529d2-fdf0-401b-968a-a2396a3f664e/ifs-therapist-nyc.jpeg</image:loc>
      <image:title>INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS THERAPY - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety &amp; Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change.</image:caption>
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