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A Beginner’s Guide for New Yorkers - Make it stand out Hilary Kopple, LCSW, is an IFS Therapist in NYC https://www.hilarykopple.com/blog/ifs-therapy-nyc-a-guide-to-healing-self-leadership-and-finding-the-right-therapist monthly 0.5 2026-01-24 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/3e423fa2-e03f-405b-b803-b9a30d0c2000/IFS_therapy_NYC.jpeg Blog - Internal Family Systems Therapy NYC: A Guide to Healing, Self Leadership, and Finding the Right Therapist - Make it stand out IFS Therapy NYC https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/cc3026a5-835b-41f0-b9a9-56ec36dfeb28/ifs_therapist_nyc.jpeg Blog - Internal Family Systems Therapy NYC: A Guide to Healing, Self Leadership, and Finding the Right Therapist - Make it stand out Hilary Kopple, LCSW, is an IFS Therapist in NYC https://www.hilarykopple.com/therapy-nyc-ny daily 1.0 2026-05-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1760560802312-H9H6EHH39WS135SXD4DW/anxiety-trauma-ifs-therapy-nyc.jpeg HOME - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1778343138130-R53EYX7CLTGC7HYHESCC/ifs-therapy-nyc.jpg HOME - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/94a529d2-fdf0-401b-968a-a2396a3f664e/ifs-therapist-nyc.jpeg HOME - I’M HILARY, an Anxiety, Trauma & IFS Therapist in New York I work with anxious young adults and professionals in New York who often feel like they’re living in overdrive-and I’ve been there too. That lived experience, combined with my training, helps me meet you where you are–not with judgment, but with curiosity and compassion. My clients often come in feeling overwhelmed and leave with: Knowledge & tools to calm racing thoughts & regulate their nervous systems Greater awareness of their inner parts and patterns More self-trust, compassion, and clarity A deeper connection to their voice, needs, and value I also specialize in helping people heal from trauma in relationships—the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel safe, seen, or connected even when life looks “together” from the outside. My specialties include Trauma Therapy, Anxiety Therapy, and IFS Therapy. 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You are capable, intentional, and often the one others rely on. And still, your mind rarely turns off. There is a constant tracking, a thinking ahead, a sense that even when things are good, something underneath never quite quiets. Maybe that shows up as striving, where accomplishments land but never fully satisfy, and the next goal is already forming before you can appreciate what you just did. Or maybe it shows up as a long habit of putting everyone else first, so ingrained that the idea of your own needs mattering can come as a genuine surprise. Often it is some of both. That is exactly what I have spent over 20 years helping people with. Not just understanding these patterns, but actually feeling different inside them. I grew up in New York in an environment where achievement was never quite enough. I know firsthand what it feels like to keep reaching, to accomplish something and find the bar has already moved. That experience carried through Dartmouth and Columbia, and into my life as a parent, where I have encountered a completely different but equally relentless kind of pressure. The food, the schools, the screen time, the constant question of whether you are doing enough or doing it right. That lived experience shapes how I listen and what I notice. I understand these patterns not just clinically but personally, which is part of why I know they can actually change. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with advanced training in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and Somatic Therapy including Sensorimotor Psychotherapy. Clients often tell me they feel genuinely heard in our sessions, and that I ask the kinds of questions that help them access something they could not quite reach on their own. I am warm, but I will also be honest with you about what I am noticing. People often find that combination both grounding and a relief. The goal is not just insight. It is for things to actually feel different, in how you relate to the people you love and how you treat yourself when things get hard. If something here feels right, trust that. 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On paper, they’re doing well. But inside, they’re overwhelmed, disconnected, and self-critical. You may downplay your needs, avoid hard conversations, or feel like peace and happiness are just out of reach. Deep down, you know this isn’t how it’s meant to be. You’ve adapted to the pressure, the mental noise, the self-doubt, but it’s exhausting. And while you’ve learned how to keep moving, part of you is ready for something more. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1777153835952-E71071D96XMNKSPYEKZ8/anxiety-therapy-nyc.jpeg ANXIETY THERAPY NYC - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/94a529d2-fdf0-401b-968a-a2396a3f664e/anxiety-therapist-nyc.jpeg ANXIETY THERAPY NYC - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety & Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York I work with anxious young adults and high-functioning professionals in New York who often feel like they’re living in overdrive-and I’ve been there too. That lived experience, combined with my training, helps me meet you where you are–not with judgment, but with curiosity and compassion. I also specialize in helping people heal from relationship trauma—the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel safe, seen, or connected even when life looks “together” from the outside. I’ll be honest- I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me fully invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and committed to help you create lasting relief and meaningful change. https://www.hilarykopple.com/contact-therapy-nyc daily 0.75 2026-05-15 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/94a529d2-fdf0-401b-968a-a2396a3f664e/therapist-nyc.jpeg CONTACT https://www.hilarykopple.com/faqs-therapy-nyc daily 0.75 2026-05-16 https://www.hilarykopple.com/disclaimer daily 0.75 2025-10-11 https://www.hilarykopple.com/ifs-therapy-nyc daily 0.75 2026-05-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1762134053564-0LNPTOJWI0XAHA4LQZBC/ifs-therapy-nyc.jpeg IFS THERAPY NYC - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/bac0602c-6d96-4a88-82bf-7d62029e6c61/ifs_therapy.jpg IFS THERAPY NYC - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/94a529d2-fdf0-401b-968a-a2396a3f664e/ifs-therapist-nyc.jpeg IFS THERAPY NYC - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety & Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change. https://www.hilarykopple.com/trauma-therapy-nyc daily 0.75 2026-05-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1777552992214-26R15KBH6GDLKS6EU5O6/trauma-therapy-nyc.jpeg TRAUMA THERAPY - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1778468635119-90W06J2AL7SOE4KVUJY9/unsplash-image-n8zBisGr02o.jpg TRAUMA THERAPY - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/94a529d2-fdf0-401b-968a-a2396a3f664e/trauma-therapist-nyc.jpeg TRAUMA THERAPY - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety & Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change. https://www.hilarykopple.com/somatic-therapy-nyc daily 0.75 2026-05-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1778466147466-GJHC08T9O83BXCLURIQN/somatic-therapy-nyc.jpeg SOMATIC THERAPY - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1778466483141-JVGFJRGJ2S4G3PC15MA0/somatic-therapy-nyc.jpeg SOMATIC THERAPY - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/94a529d2-fdf0-401b-968a-a2396a3f664e/ifs-therapist-nyc.jeg SOMATIC THERAPY - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety & Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change. https://www.hilarykopple.com/cognitive-behavioral-therapy daily 0.75 2026-05-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1778464917623-RCW5QHHSO30Q1WWJV3RR/cbt-therapy-nyc.jpeg COGNITIVE-BEHAVIORAL THERAPY - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1778469199537-D041T9L3ZD2TA92XUBBL/cbt-therapy-nyc.jpeg COGNITIVE-BEHAVIORAL THERAPY - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/94a529d2-fdf0-401b-968a-a2396a3f664e/ifs-therapist-nyc.jeg COGNITIVE-BEHAVIORAL THERAPY - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety & Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change. https://www.hilarykopple.com/ifs-therapy-nyc-1 daily 0.75 2026-05-11 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/1762134053564-0LNPTOJWI0XAHA4LQZBC/ifs-therapy-nyc.jpeg INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS THERAPY - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/bac0602c-6d96-4a88-82bf-7d62029e6c61/ifs_therapy.jpg INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS THERAPY - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/68be7dadfeb1440b84f2c267/94a529d2-fdf0-401b-968a-a2396a3f664e/ifs-therapist-nyc.jpeg INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS THERAPY - I’m Hilary, An Adult Anxiety & Relationship Trauma Therapist in New York I’m a therapist in New York specializing in anxiety and relationship trauma — the subtle, lingering wounds that make it hard to feel secure, seen, or connected, even when everything looks “together” on the outside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, smart, successful adults who’ve done therapy before but still feel stuck in familiar dynamics. My approach blends IFS with a deep respect for your lived experience. We’ll move at a pace that feels safe, steady, and grounded in curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be honest. I have my own overachiever parts. The upside is that they keep me deeply invested in showing up for you, paying close attention, and staying committed to helping you create lasting, meaningful change.